Why You Should Treat Yourself To Sexy Lingerie
By Octavia Akoulitchev of
Beverly Hills Lingerie
Some people think of lingerie as an unnecessary indulgence - I couldn’t disagree more. Perhaps you’re single, stuck in quarantine, and think there’s no point spending money on a lace set and stockings if no one’s going to see them. But you are, and I think your perception of yourself matters a whole lot more than anyone else’s. Beautiful lingerie doesn’t have to be for anyone else but you - the only person’s opinion who you should really care about, after all, is your own. If you don’t see yourself as sexy, it doesn’t matter how many other people do.
When you wear lingerie for no one else’s sake but your own, you’re sending a subliminal message to yourself that you deserve beautiful things, you deserve high quality and you deserve the best. And most importantly, you can give all that to yourself - you don’t need anyone else. Since you’re not wearing it to impress anyone but yourself, the only validation that matters is your own. That’s empowering.
Lingerie also makes you feel more confident. Try wearing a red lace lingerie set with stockings underneath your formal attire next time you have an intimidating exam or interview - you’ll feel more powerful, and that confidence will radiate from you and manifest in your behavior. It’s a secret weapon that no one knows about but you.
Lingerie is also a great way to tap into your divine feminine power that we all, as women, hold. In today’s patriarchal society, femininity is often demonized, or patronized and undermined as ‘frivolous.’ I think it’s the opposite. I think it’s magical and powerful - claim it.
On a more practical note, high quality, properly sized lingerie simply makes your clothes fit better. Surveys show that 80% of American women are wearing the wrong size bra. Wearing the right bra will not only make you feel more physically comfortable, it will help your whole outfit look more put-together.
Beginning each day by selecting and wearing gorgeous lingerie is not merely a fun addition to your morning routine, it helps implement a more conscious life. And afterwards? You’ll feel ready to take on the world.